Wednesday, February 5, 2014

In need of a wider circle of (no not life) friends...

Well, it's not like it just struck me but at this very moment, I realised that my circle of friends is very limited. If I do not hang out with Pip, I am basically stuck at home. I  need to go out more. At my age, staying home without socialising in a way, is not an option.

I was suppose to spend the whole day with Pip, but he went out with his friends. Made me pretty pissed. It was at this moment when I realised, I have no one to turn to for company. Pretty pathetic huh. I think so too.

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with staying at home but going out, meeting people, making new friends, has always been one of the ways that keep me happy. One of the reasons I entered PR actually, I thought I would be meeting lots and lots of people.

Starting a new job soon. I need to lose weight (don't we all, girls). I need to socialise more.

I always thought I will be the kind of person that would be making new friends every minute. But at the rate I am going, I will end up with no friends and maybe 50 cats and dogs.

Ok, there's this questions that has been hanging around my head for a few days now, is it acceptable to be good friends with the opposite sex?

Well, here's my problem, it's not that I can't mix well with girls, it's just that I am more open with guys. It comes as a surprise to me since I grew up in an all girl's school and no brothers yet I feel more comfortable around guys.

Therefore, I am throwing a question out there. Is weird/strange to have more male friends compared to female? Is it possible to maintain a platonic relationship between the opposite sex?

Or maybe I feel that men are not as judgmental as women? We can tell them stuff and they'll probably forget about it the next day. Maybe I am unable to mix well with girls, well probably it's because I am not really into girly stuff? I am not afraid to admit that I am more on the "tom-boy" side. I love outdoor activity, I REALLY WANT to play futsal, and I just can't seem to converse comfortably with girls. I mean, WHAT do girls talk about? Hair? Make up? Boys? (I know I am stereotyping but I really have no idea what girls talk among themselves!)

Sister is looking over my shoulder. Peeping sister. Tsk tsk tsk. There's no privacy in this place. Not that I am complaining much.


Gonna call it a night soon.

Here's a "selfie".

You have to go with the flow~

Me at age 23, year 2014, in the month of February.